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Over the past while, I have been returning to a number of novels that I first encountered many decades ago. Lord of...

  There comes a point in some careers when the question is no longer: “How do I find another job?” The deeper...

  One of the more complicated dynamics I have observed in working with addiction and relationships is that partners...

  One of the most important ideas Patrick Carnes explores in Facing the Shadow is the difference between...

  Recovery from sexual compulsivity is often described in terms of what a person stops doing: pornography, affairs,...

For many people, losing a job is not simply about losing employment. It can mean losing a piece of yourself. This...

  When someone enters therapy for pornography or sexual addiction, the obvious goal is recovery from the addictive...

In my work with men struggling with addiction, I have often found that the addictive behaviour itself is only part...

One of Freud’s most enduring—and controversial—contributions to psychology was the Oedipus complex, named after the...

One of the most common things I hear from clients is, "I wish I had figured this out years ago." Sometimes it's a...